Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Thursday, July 1, 2010

I need a book for the beach

As I alluded to a few weeks ago, I’m patiently counting down the hours until I leave for a week of much needed R&R in the Outer Banks of North Carolina. It’s only about 714 hours until our trip… if you must know.

When I vacation I’m more of a “relaxer” than a planner. I don’t set alarms, I don’t make any decisions more than a day or so in advance and I generally just go with it. This year though, I do have one goal: I want to finally read a book for pleasure.

Before you go proclaiming what a shallow person I am for “finally” reading a book for fun, let me just say I used to pleasure-read all the time in high school and during my first year or two of college.

Then I got to grad school. Then I read so many academic journal articles and textbooks that I forgot there could even be enjoyment in the activity. Then I developed a permanent lazy eye.

All right, the last part was a joke – but I think you get the point.

So now I’m ready to get back on the proverbial saddle, but the only problem is that I don’t know where to start. I know what I used to enjoy (mainly the thriller/horror genre), but I’ve grown up a good deal since then. Not to say I wouldn’t still enjoy a cheesy Stephen King novel, but I think I could get into a much wider variety of story at this point.

I’ve heard I may enjoy Dan Brown (“The Da Vinci Code”), so according to Amazon.com’s suggestions, that means I’ll also like Michael Crichton and about 100 books on Freemasons and the end of the world. Eh...

It looks like I need to hit the Interweb hard to find something that piques my interest… but that’s a lot of work. I would much rather get suggestions from you, the lovely reader/friend.

So… what do you got for me? Any help would be appreciated. Hugs and kisses; happy July.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Signs of Summer: Outdoor Concerts

Despite the agonizing fact that the official start date of summer isn’t until June 23, we’ve already had a few waves of summer-like weather in my neck of the woods. Its days like these that energize and invigorate the lion’s share of us who live in areas with over 225 days a year of “gray” weather, and these nice days deserve their due.

With that said, every Tuesday and Thursday until the official start of summer we’ll bring you an ode to the signs of summer, one marvelous item at a time. And PS - we would love it if you would pepper in your thoughts as well.


Today we pay homage to outdoor concerts.

Namely Tom Petty… bring it on, haters.

My wife and I have seen TP three times so far, once with the better half of this here blog in fact, and honest to God, I’m not sure if there’s a more fulfilling summer experience from start to finish. Granted, it’s a little more expensive than cooking on the grill, and it requires more planning than getting in a round of golf, but the whole event just screams summer.

Highlights from past Petty experiences run the gamut of awesomeness. We (whatever group is assembled) typically try to arrive at the venue three to four hours before show time to ensure that we get our tailgate on properly. We tend to keep it simple with a little propane grill, hamburgers, hot dogs, chips & dip and plenty of booze. Once the food and drink have been appropriately taken care of, we make our final pilgrimage to pay homage to one of rock’s best performers.

And Tom never lets us down, knocking out hit after hit, sprinkled with a dash of instrumental jam sessions, all brought together seamlessly with a spattering of stories that can only be told by someone with a pedigree such as his.

True story: Last time we went we got a late start on the day thanks to work commitments. Consequently, thanks to that late start, we hit one of the most nightmarish traffic jams in concert-going history. Anywhere, anytime, ever. No exaggeration whatsoever, it took us over four hours to navigate what Mapquest said was 31 miles/41 minutes.

At this point we’ll be lucky to make it in time for Petty’s opening song. So we’re trudging along in the stop-start turmoil that was, when I, the driver, get hit with the most vicious feeling in the world: I gotta go.

I think you know what I’m saying.

At this point we can see the venue entrance about half a mile up ahead. I tell my wife to take the drivers seat, I throw the car in park and I take off down the road - running more and faster than I had in years prior to that. I practically throw myself into the first patch of woods I see and as Forrest Gump would say, “I went.” Then I hear the snickers and shuffling up ahead of a group of people doing the only other thing one does in the solace of the forest at an outdoor concert… you can fill in the blank.

By the time I made it back to the car, we were at the entrance and could hear Petty’s soundcheck. Luckily, we made it in by the skin of our teeth… and chugged like three beers a piece during our wait to get to the front of the line. Coincidentally, my better half (blog-wise, not marriage-wise) ended up breaking his foot that evening but didn’t know it until the effects of said evening wore off a day later. Good times.

So let’s do it: your summer concert list, past or present. And no judgments here - we’ll get you started.

Vans Warped Tour
Dave Matthews Band
O.A.R.
Jack Johnson
Ben Harper
311
Family Values Tour
Lillith Fair
Bamboozle Fest
Counting Crows
Radio Festivals
Community Festivals
Town Fair Tours (reuniting some of the best/worst bands ever)

Your turn.

Come back and Ride with us at 4 p.m.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

...For The Ride Home: Everybody loves Pittsburgh, playoff beards abound and 40 years ago today, bad things happened at Kent State

Spoke of it yesterday, but just in case you missed it, we need to reinforce this: Go watch "In The Loop." Well, if you want to laugh, at least. If you don't want to laugh, go watch an Adam Sandler movie (sans "Funny People") or "The Hangover" or "The Reader" or something. Moving forward, from what we understand, tomorrow is a holiday. Maybe. Like a Mexican or Spanish holiday, right? Who knows. It's a holiday that allows 18-22-year-olds to have an excuse to take a break from studying for finals. Cinco De Mayo is what it is believed to be. Drink and eat tacos. As for today, take some time to check out the links below before getting one more day of rest before anarchy ensues. Be good.

Pittsburgh is the most livable city in America. Unless you live next to Ben Roethlisberger. (Yahoo)

40 years ago, four students died at Kent State. (CNN)

Wow Buzz Bissinger is mad. But he digs newspapers. So you have to love him. (Philly Mag)

Keanu Reeves and Charlize Theron? Really? This has to guarantee a new Third Eye Blind album in the making. (TMZ)

Jimmy Fallon will host this year’s Emmy awards. Good. (Popeater)

Woman unhappy with friend’s choice of groom. Threatens to “buy a gun and hurt her friend’s fiancĂ©.” Insert “she crazy” joke here. (Slate)

Conan lied in his “60 Minutes” interview. Hmm. (New York Daily News)

The 10 most fascinating playoff beards in hockey. Nothing witty to say about that. (Yahoo)

A lesson from the crazy old lady down the street

When I get old and my mind starts to fail, I PRAY that I am one of those jubilant crazy people, as opposed to the angry, paranoid type. Here's a conversation I overheard recently between a semi-crazy older lady (we'll call her Mildred) and a middle-aged woman with moderate health problems (lets call her Lois):

Mildred: "So honey, how've you been doing lately?"
Lois: "Oh, you know... I have another exam tomorrow and I've been pretty tired lately. I started getting this pain in my knee when I wake up in the morning and I'm really worried it's more than just early-onset arthritis. Then of course there's the nagging earache I've had for the last few weeks... So between all that and my chiropractor telling me I need a new ergonomically correct chair if I want my back to stop hurting, it's been tough lately."
Mildred: (Without missing a beat) "Well you look good honey!" (She chuckles as she walks away, muttering something about the hilarity of the hummingbirds on her patio)

Now Mildred, at the ripe age of 89, probably has a list of medications that makes even her pharmacist blush. She gets around with a walker, has beaten cancer and is as diabetic as they come. But she sure as hell has one thing going for her - a slight case of dementia. Not the dementia that makes her think the nurses are stealing from her, oh no. Whatever form of dementia is afflicting her has made her the sweetest, happiest person anyone could ever come in contact with. Maybe it was a different upbringing; maybe it's one of the medications; but whatever it is, she is just a peach.

I understand that mentally debilitating conditions like dementia are not a good thing (we all saw "The Notebook"), but I so wish I could have that same mentality even today - to look at each day as a gift, not a drag. I wouldn't dream of being preachy with you, the lovely reader/commenter (hehe), but imagine the added joy we could get out of life if we just took the time to appreciate it.

So take a lesson from Mildred: enjoy the little things. And for God's sake smile already.














Let's Ride together at 4 p.m. See you then, friends

- TS